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There was a time when you and your spouse met that you just couldn’t get enough of each other. You daydreamed about this person and thought about how much you enjoyed spending time with him or her. You wanted to spend every waking moment getting to know them and there was a unique euphoria that you received when you were with him or her.  Along the way, usually years into the relationship, something was lost or changed and you don’t get that great feeling that you use to have. Don’t panic! This does not mean that you have fallen out of love with this person, it just means that you need to revive the relationship. Marital boredom and relationship boredom are very common and can be fixed.

Often times in marriage people forget that it does take work to keep the good times rolling. Many people either don’t want to put forth the effort into saving their relationship because it seems hopeless or they would just rather move on and meet someone new. Often times if a change is not made, marital depression can set in as well.  A new start with a new person may or may not be the right answer. Remember, you may get that euphoria feeling back with someone new, but eventually, the feeling will wear off and you’ll be back in the same spot that you are now. It’s better for your relationship and your family if you can fix the problems in your current marriage and continue on with the person that you originally thought to be good enough to spend the rest of your life with. In other words, it’s better to nip this problem in the bud now rather than having to do it later with someone new.

How do you get that feeling back after so much time and so many issues have crossed your path through the years? The number one way to start heading in the right direction again is to get out and have some fun together, alone! When you first met, most likely you didn’t have the pressures that you have now. Now it seems that it takes all that you can do to just stay above the water and keep everyone taken care of and happy. But what about yourself and your spouse? Are you taking the time needed to have fun? If not, why? Isn’t your relationship worth it?

You need to change something in order to change your circumstance. If you don’t, most likely the relationship will continue to deteriorate. Here a few things to try at first. We’re going to keep it simple to start off with. Warren Greshes’ famous statement “small steps done on a consistent basis will always give you great results” is a very true statement to live by in any aspect of your life.

Start setting time apart from your regular daily activities to spend quality time alone with your spouse. It’s not a choice if you want to make this relationship work. It is absolutely imperative.

Start complimenting your spouse. He or she needs to feel important to you. Even if the compliment is a stretch, you’ll come out on top for giving positive reinforcement. Everyone responds well to compliments. If you’ve heard the phrase “you never compliment me”  from your spouse, then you really need to work on this.

Start doing special things for your spouse to let them know that you really do care. A wink here and there, a tap on the butt, a peck once in awhile for no reason and a special effort to help out around the house are all great ways to show that your partner is special.

Spice up your love life by lighting candles, wearing sexy lingerie, experimenting with new ideas & positions in love making,  buy her a gift that will please you both and remember to take your time in the bedroom so that you both get satisfied properly.

Talk. Talk. Talk. Communication is key. If you and your partner are not communicating each others needs to one another then you may heading for destruction. The good news is, this can be changed. Come out of your comfort zone to let each other know what you need to make you happy in your relationship, both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom.

If you have a family, get out and do some fun family outings as well. Boredom often comes from doing the same thing over and over again or from doing nothing at all. Switch things up. Do something fun as a family. This will reinforce the fact that your family is better off together and it will give you something to look back at when things don’t seem reversible.

Make plans for something special in advance and tell your mate that there is something in the works that they can look forward to on a certain day. You have no idea how much this intrigues the thought process. It’s like a child anticipating their upcoming birthday party. How exciting it is to be surprised as an adult! This will also ensure that the person on the receiving end will be thinking of you and the surprise for days to come. Try it, you’ll both like it!

Try going out with other couples once in a while to add to your spectrum of activities. This still gives you time together while introducing something new to your fun time. You’ll be surprised at how much fun a night out on the town can be for the both of you when you’re with close friends.

Boredom in marriage is not the end of the relationship. It is the beginning of new life changes that you can make to fulfill your life. Chances are that you still really love your mate, you just need a little push in the right direction.  Just as with anything in life, if you want to be successful, it will take extra effort but the payoff is far above the consequences of giving up on your marriage or relationship. It’s easy to give up but the fighters are usually the ones that end up on top. You can be a winner in your relationship and you can be happy. You just need to take the right steps in order to make this a reality. Hang in there, you can do it!

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The first thing to remember while mending your broken heart is that no matter what your circumstance is at the moment, unfortunately it could always be worse. Focus on the good people & things that are in your life and how lucky you are to have them. Draw strength & encouragement from them. You are not alone!

The second important fact to reiterate in your mind is that you are a wonderful person who has a lot to offer the world. You are loving & kind, you assist others when needed & you have a deep regard for other people’s feelings. You are a fighter and a winner who is valuable & loved by others. Respect yourself for the great person that you are and you will begin to see that this is not the end of the world but rather a new beginning for something bigger & brighter!

Thirdly, you absolutely must move on. This is the hardest part of the equation when mending a broken heart but it is necessary. Although a period of grieving is expected, the faster that you can move on and put those hurt feelings behind you, the faster that you can mend your heart and start feeling normal again.

Another key point in mending a broken heart is to forgive yourself for any wrongs that may or may not have attributed to your relationship break up. It doesn’t matter now. It’s over. Don’t ask yourself “What if I would have done this?” or “What if I wouldn’t have done that?”. It’s irrelevant at this point and there is no benefit to you by doubting or shaming yourself. You also need to forgive your former partner. This may take some time and a whole lot of effort but when you forgive that person you will feel an immediate release & reduction in your stress level.

After the grieving & mending processes, it’s a great idea to start mingling with potential future relationship prospects. It’s amazing what a new relationship can do to help you forget the past and proceed into the future with enthusiasm! Good things come to good people. Be selective & choose wisely to avoid future heartache.

Life goes on & you deserve to be happy! When mending a broken heart, remember that this problem did not come to stay. It too will pass and when it does, look out! You’ll most likely see that this was probably the best thing that could have happened when you see what’s on the horizon for you! Stay positive & look to the future!

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Flirting with the opposite sex is fun and exciting for both men and women. Flirting is a way of letting the other person know that you’re interested in getting to know them better while making them feel attractive and special. If flirting is done properly, it could set you up for a first date that could lead to a long lasting relationship or even marriage.

Everyone has an instinctual way of flirting that helps to break the ice when they meet a potential prospect. This innate ability to communicate your interest can be shown in a variety of ways. Subtle ways of flirting are the best way to initiate the process. Once you feel confident that you’re receiving the same flirtatious behavior from your prospect, more obvious and outgoing signals can be sent. Be patient though, you don’t want to get started on the wrong path by being too overbearing in the beginning. If it was meant to be, it will come. If it was not meant to be, it’s better to find that out right away.

Flirting Techniques

Navigate your way closer to the person that you’re interested in. This speeds up the process tremendously when looking to find out whether or not this person is interested in you. (If you can’t get closer, make eye contact to begin with.)

Your body language has a lot to say without ever having to open your mouth. Eye contact is key in showing your interest. Prolonged eye contact and frequent eye contact both have a lasting effect and they give you the indication as to whether there is an initial spark between you. Physical attraction is necessary in any relationship whether it is just
starting out or whether it has not even begun yet.
If you’ve gotten the chance to get physically closer to him or her, your spoken language could make or break his or her first impression of you. Make sure your conversation is light and uplifting which automatically attracts people in general. Be positive and smile. Laughter is always an ice breaker and it usually tends to draw others to you.

Once you’ve broken the ice and the conversation seems to be going well, leaning inward while speaking or talking into this persons ear gives you the opportunity to get even closer. This is when the physical attraction between the both of you can be tested. If it is well received, you’re well on your way. If it is not well received, you know that it’s probably time to move on.

As the day or evening progesses, the feeling of wanting to touch the other person will get stronger. By this time, you’ve somewhat gotten to know eachother and you’re positive that there is an attraction between you. It’s important to be obvious but tactful. Be careful not to scare the other person away by being obnoxious or overbearing. Subtleness in flirting goes a long way. A quaint tap on the knee or arm and a two stroke shoulder rub will make anyone feel your thoughts without giving you those dreadful “fear of rejection” feelings. Its just a simple tap to let them know that you are indeed interested.  It’s also a great way to see if the touch is returned or ignored.

Speak with your body. This means using subtle hand gestures while talking. This will draw attention and attraction to yourself and it also shows that you are confident and comfortable with yourself. Flirting tips that include speaking with your body are:

Raising your eyebrows, tilting your head, resting your hands on your hips while holding your shoulders back, winking with one or two eyes, playing with your hair, smiling, love tapping, standing close (you may even slightly brush against eachother) while talking with others in the group, and noticing when they leave the area and come back.

Flirting, when received openly by the pursued, can be an invigorating feeling that makes you feel alive. Be sure to assess the situation as it progresses to see if this person is or is not someone that you would want to get to know better. Always be cautious to keep yourself out of any situation that you can’t get yourself out of. Playing it safe when you’re not sure is always the best policy to have.

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Often times negative thinking stems from how you see your partner rather than your partner being the sole problem. Take an inventory of yourself to see if you possess critical thinking. Are you always focusing on what your partner did wrong? Are you constantly nagging him or her to do what you want, the way that you want it?

You can choose what thoughts that you want to put into your mind. A negative attitude will produce a negative effect. Your thought process is a very powerful thing and if you can learn to reverse your negative thinking and start to think positively, you’ll begin to see an improvement in your relationship or marriage.

Recognition is a key factor in eliminating your negative attitude. Recognize your negative thoughts as they come into your mind and abolish the negative thinking right away. Deal with each critical thought one at a time by downplaying the negative and focusing on the positive. This could be learned by listening to self help audio or dvd recordings, reading books, seeking professional help or self talk.

Instead of criticizing your partner for what they did or didn’t do, try giving them a compliment for something that they did do right. Everyone responds better to praise and they are more likely to want to do a better job as a result of it. If you have a problem with your partner, go to them and discuss it but do not nag, criticize, poke, fault find or condemn them. This is non productive and it will ultimately have an adverse effect on your relationship.

Make a list of the good qualities that your spouse has and read over this list every day. Even if it seems a little silly, this is your start in training your mind to think positively. It allows you to recognize the reasons that you married or started dating your partner in the first place. It allows you to see that is is not all bad!

Remember that your spouse is not you. Although you may have a certain way of doing things, there are often times several ways of doing things and everyone is different. If you criticize your spouse too often, this critical spirit may eventually rub off on them, causing even more trouble in your relationship.

Avoid talking about your spouse behind there back to your friends as this only raises the level of your negativity. Condemnation is not an option when your partner is present or absent. You were meant to support eachother through thick and thin, not to alienate one another.

The key factor to remember is that we all have faults and to magnify these faults will only do your relationship harm. Try to resolve the issues at hand in a lighter tone and you’ll begin to see a difference in the way your partner responds to you. We only have one life to live and who wants to live it miserably?

Start thinking positive, even if you don’t believe it at first. Train your mind to find the good things about your partner and focus on them. These positive attributes just may be the saving factor that can revive your relationship and allow you to go on to have a happy & healthy life together, if you focus on them.

Giving up is the easy way out, stay and better your relationship if you truly do love the person that you’re with. In the long run, you will most likely be glad that you did and if there are children involved, you’ll be giving them a 400% better chance of living a more fulfilling life.

Lingerie Lot is not a professional lisenced counseling center & only gives this relationship advice as a tool that you may or may not choose to use. We do not make any claims based on the use of our Relationship Help articles. Please seek professional advice if you deem it to be necessary.

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When your marriage is working properly the onset of jealousy is absent. The reason for this is because you are both prioritizing your relationship and your spouse as being your number one priority.

Is there someone or something that you are allowing to take your focus away from your spouse? This could be working too much, playing sports a little too often or a friend that you enjoy spending a lot of time with. Is it creating a barrier between you and your spouse? If so, it is most likely because we all have an inert jealousy that is a built in defense mechanism designed to protect our relationships. If you take the right approach, the occurence of this happening in your relationship can be all together eliminated.

Sacrifice is key to eliminating jealousy in relationships. What are you willing to sacrifice to make this happen? Your spouse needs to get the benefit of spending the majority of their time with you. Your loved one needs to come first. They need to be first on your priority list, before your job (within reason), before your sports or hanging around with your friends. It is helpful to set aside time in each day to go over the days events, discuss issues, or just spend quality time alone together. You may also want to set aside a “date night” where you and your spouse can focus on having fun together, just the two of you. The main objective is to prioritize your relationship and let your spouse know that they indeed are number one on your list. Sacrifice is essential in order to make your spouse aware of this without a doubt.

The second way to eliminate jealousy in relationships is to put some energy into it. It’s not enough to sit around and watch TV together. Just because you’ve set time aside to spend with eachother each day doesn’t mean that it is going to be effective. You absolutely need to put some energy into it by making an effort to do something different, go somewhere new or to make whatever you are doing special in some way. Actions without meaning behind them are meaningless so remember to liven it up and be creative. Buying yourself some sexy lingerie is always a great way to spice things up and he’ll love you for it! The main focus is to put your relationship first and foremost, always. Again, your partner needs to feel that they are your number one priority.

The third way to eliminate jealousy in relationships is to program your words and your actions to reflect the way you feel towards one another. Just because your partner knows that you love them doesn’t mean that you don’t have to say it anymore. Everyone needs reassurance and affection on a continual basis. It is the wheel that drives the love mobile. Your attitude, actions and demeanor towards your relationship show that you absolutely adore one another. Bring home some flowers after work one day with a nice card stating your love. Make a special reservation at a favorite dinner spot or rent a love story movie to watch together at home while cuddling on the couch. Your actions and the effort you put into your relationship will be rewarded ten fold if you just take the time to do these special things.

If you follow these three simple steps, you will begin to see the jealousy factor all together disappear in a matter of a short period of time. Remember, prioritize your relationship to be the most important thing in your life. This also sets a great example for your children. They will take this life lesson with them into their future relationships. Set a good example for them by doing these things yourself and you’ll also be setting them up for success in their relationships as well as your own.

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Remember when you & your spouse first started dating? Do you remember when you married eachother? Often times couples are at their happiest in the early phases of their relationship. The main reason for this is because you were both so careful not to offend one another in the beginning. You were careful to do the right things & to say the right words that made it easy for your mate to fall in love with you. You fell in love because you worked at it.

Emotions & relationships do not happen effortlessly. They take work in order to keep them running as smoothly as they did in the beginning. You need to get back to the mindset that you had when you first met. Do the special things that fuel your relationship or it will run out of gas! Take your baby doll out for a romantic dinner or bring her flowers after work. Ladies, make your man a romantic dinner at home by candlelight or buy him a gift as a token of your love.

One of the key factors to remember is that there is no “one” perfect soul mate out there for you. There is no relationship that will just flow effortlessly without special attention. All relationships have problems in varying degrees. The important thing is to remember that it can get better if you’re both willing to work on it & do the things that it takes to rekindle your relationship.

A study was done with a large group of couples that were unhappy in their relationships at the time of the survey. The same group of couples was surveyed five years later and 85% of them said that they were “now” happy in their marraige. It is entirely possible to fix your marraige no matter what the circumstances are but it may take a lot of forgiveness & hard work from both parties. If you are committed to going the extra mile to do what it takes to save your relationship, chances are that you will be glad that you did in the long run.

Remember, the #1 thing that ladies need is the feeling of security. This is essential for her happiness.

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Start by changing the way you treat eachother & you’ll begin to see a difference right away. First, you’ll need to start to like eachother again. In a couple of months, you’ll start to see the love come back again & in several years, you’ll most likely be past anything you’d ever imagined for your marraige. Anyone can give up on their marraige but we need to get back to the old family traditions of sticking it out & making it better for the sake of the entire family. You can do it!

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A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter “Don’t forget your Sisters,” she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. “’They’ll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.”

“’Remember that ‘Sisters’ means ALL the women…  your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. You’ll need other women. Women always do.”

What a funny piece of advice, the young woman thought. Haven’t I just gotten
married?  Haven’t I just joined the couple-world? I’m now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life
worthwhile!

But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life. After more than 40 years of living in this world, here is what I’ve learned:

Time passes.

Life happens.

Distance separates.

Children grow up.

Jobs come and go.

Love waxes and wanes.

Hearts break.

Parents die.

Colleagues forget favors.

Careers end.

BUT………

Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your
life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you…Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure
called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.

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Remember those who are important to you and make time for them.

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Our answer, abosolutely not! It doesn’t matter if you have a candlelight dinner at a romantic restaurant or under the stars at your favorite couples camping spot. What DOES matter is that you’ve remembered the candles wherever you have decided to go!

Romantic Getaway Ideas:

• Plan a Romance filled camping weekend. Make the reservation, pack the gear, get the groceries and bring the firewood. Remember your camo lingerie to set the scene for your night out under the stars.
• Take a weekend tour of a scenic location in your general area complete with hotel reservation and points of interest to see. Remember the road directions and GPS.
• Take a 4-Wheelin’ excursion to your favorite all terrain vehicle park. With a 4 Wheeler for the both of you, you’re bound to have fun in the mud!
• Women LOVE to shop. Take your baby doll out of town shopping to a completely new shopping mall. Spend the day patiently waiting and helping her while she shops her heart out. Then take her out for a special dinner and surprise her later with a gift of sexy lingerie or rhinestone jewelry from LingerieLot.com
• Take your partner out of town to the races. Whatever your preference, horse races, stock car races or motorcross, it will be a fun experience.
• Go to a romance orientated Bed & Breakfast. Relax and enjoy eachother’s company. If you’re really daring, try a haunted Bed & Breakfast for the closeness you desire!
• If you live in the Northern United States, take a trip to Duluth, Minnesota to visit the beautiful Lake Superior. Take a drive from there up along the north shore, stopping periodically to climb the boulders that line the north shore while visiting the historical sites.
• Rent a House Boat for the weekend and spend your time floating on the Sea of Love (or Lake of Love) with your partner.
• Rent a motorhome and take a mini trip to your favorite spots. Plan ahead and make sure you have a place to park for the evening.
• Go to your favorite casino and spend the weekend modestly playing your luck. Take in a show and dinner or order room service and stay in for the evening wearing your comfortable and sexy nightgown from Lingerie Lot.com. Take a dip in the pool and hold your baby doll close while basking in the heat of the hot tub.

Have fun and enjoy yourselves, you deserve it!

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